Rare disease day

Posted on March 1, 2016 by mommabear0208

Yesterday was rare disease day. It was also my great-grandmothers birthday; she would have been 124 (or 62 if we got literal about the actual day – which always fascinated me when I was a kid). I posted about both on Facebook but didn’t get the opportunity to blog in time. (Gives you an indication of how hectic it’s been).

What was particularly fitting about yesterday and rare disease day was that I had my annual check in with my special needs estate planner/attorney. My heart is always heavy at these meetings. The lawyer is a lovely person – he is kind and even generous (I got the single momma discount yesterday for setting up yet another trust, this one for my retirement funds). But the topics we discuss are all very morose.

Regardless, it was a good day. I got home in time to cuddle with my sweetie and even managed to read a little before passing out.

5 years old!!

Posted on February 8, 2016 by mommabear0208

Lily is so excited about her birthday. We had nice, small celebrations with some family over the weekend. They spoiled the both of us. Today I’m heading to school for a pizza party with her classmates. So! Much! Fun!

It’s going to be quite the week for us girls. Party at school today then I have to rush to midtown to do a presentation for an important constituent group. Tomorrow night I’m going to a talk on the kindergarten process. Wednesday I’m taking Lily to the endocrinologist (the latest specialist we need to see). Then Thursday is the meeting with the DOE to talk about kindergarten placement. Somehow I will manage to squeeze in a full work week on top of this.

Lots going on. Most of it good. All of it for my sweet Lily. Who is now 5! No way Josè!

Makes me mad!

Posted on February 6, 2016 by mommabear0208

Leisurely girls going for a boat ride!

It’s been a while dear reader… There have been so many stories percolating in my brain these past few months but I’ve not had the energy to put pen to paper (or more aptly fingertips to keyboard). Doctors appointments, kindergarten research, the worst bout of insomnia she’s had yet topped with coxsackie – there’s been a lot going on. Thankfully there’s been a lot of awesome and amazing stuff happening too. We went on a speedboat while visiting our family in Florida for the holidays which Lily LOVED. She is turning 5 on Monday. Also, Lily is getting really good at using her Tobii and there’s just one story that I have to share…

This happened one night when our dear friend Carlos was visiting in December. Lily and I were playing the sleep ‘game’. It goes something like this: after we go through our evening routine, I put her down in bed, tuck her in and say goodnight while shutting the door. Two minutes later, she jumps out of bed and knocks on the door. I go in and put her back down telling her it’s sleep time. Shut the door. She jumps out, knock-knock. And so forth.

Sometimes she’s fast and escapes from the room before I can put her back in bed. Kid runs into living room. Goes over to the computer and gently puts her hand on it (which means ‘Mommy! I want to listen to music!). I tell her, ‘Lily, Mommy said it’s time for bed so no music.’

She doesn’t like that answer so she runs into the playroom (which means, ‘Mommy! I want to watch a movie!). I tell her, ‘Lily, Mommy said it’s time for bed so no movie and no music.’

She doesn’t like that answer either so she runs over to the Tobii which is perched on a chair in the living room. Using the Tobii she says/navigates, ‘I have an idea! TV/DVD show!’ I tell her, ‘Lily, Mommy said it’s time for bed so no TV, no movie and no music.’

She then finds a button on the Tobii (one that I had never seen before) and says, ‘Makes me mad!’

And that my friends, is my almost 5 year old acting her age. I am one proud momma.

Speech-generating button on the Tobii that Lily uses somewhat frequently these days when she’s upset with Mommy!

Food

Posted on December 15, 2015 by mommabear0208

Here’s a note I received from L’s school speech therapist earlier today:

I just wanted to reach out to you and let you know that I offered to Lily some of my own gluten free vegan dark chocolate birthday cake here at school. I know she doesn’t eat gluten or dairy so I figured it would be a nice treat. She absolutely loved it and couldn’t stop giggling and reached out for more. The amount would be equivalent to 3 adult spoonful sizes. She very appropriately used her tobii during the activity. She let me know she was happy multiple times and said something new several times on her tobii to let me know it was different.

She had such a good time.

This kid has ALWAYS loved her food!

A beautiful sight!

Posted on December 10, 2015 by mommabear0208

christmas2015

It’s official. Lily loves Christmas. Well, at least she loves the tree and the decorations. This is now her favorite spot in the house. It warms my heart to watch her enjoy those twinkly lights.

It’s been a rough few weeks for us over here. My mom’s not been well (but thankfully she’s on the mend) and Lily had one hell of a stomach bug last week which threw off her sleep in a way that I wasn’t sure either of us would recover from.

We’re both still recovering from it actually. But she’s back at school and I’m back at the office and we are doing our best to stay awake during the day and ride the sleepless wave at night. And we’re BOTH looking forward to seeing Grandma and the cousins in Florida soon!

Happy Holidays to all you wonderful people.

Love,

C and L